Delta House Group Home on Cleveland St.
3/30 9:12am It looks like Erica is on board with some help for those interested in keeping tabs on Delta. Feel free to contact her with any info/comments. [see letter] P.S.: At the end of April Sen. Browns office has scheduled a stop at the Senior Center. See Norma for exact schedule. - JO
3/25 6:02pm TO TC: I agree with you 100%. Myself along with two other women have started on organization called VOICES. We have a web site if you want to check it out: communityvoices.net. On May 12, 2005 @ 7:00 p.m., we will be holding an Internet safety meeting at the King Philip Junior High School. Senator Scott Brown, an FBI Agent, a Massachusetts State Trooper and a representative from the Norfolk Police Department will be speaking. We hope to cover all aspects of Internet safety including identity theft, etc. Brochures will be passed out as well. We don't have the answers, but we are hoping to make some sort of a difference. If you would like more information, please go on to the website or come to the meeting, and we will meet with you then. - SD
3/25 3:50pm In light of the tragedy in Florida, I too reflected, with great relief, on the efforts of those who fought the placement of sex offenders on Cleveland St. I am willing to go a great distance to protect the rights of all people, but I stop at pedophiles. Unfortunately, they are everywhere. Knowing that registered sex offenders and pedophiles are no longer in that neighborhood is a great start, but we must be mindful there are many more who remain unregistered and equally, if not more, dangerous. Great strides have been made, but as a society we have a long way to go to truly protect our children. - TC
3/24 8:18am In thinking of the recent tragedy in Florida regarding yet another sex offender and yet another innocent child, I would once again like to express my gratitude to those who worked tirelessly to remove the sex offender home from the Cleveland Street neighborhood. While most people were very understanding of this situation even if they weren't from this immediate area, there were those who seemed to be more concerned for the rights of the sex offenders over the rights of the children. For those who thought our neighborhood was just being hysterical or discriminatory against these sex offenders, while labeling us as "not in my backyard" Nimby, I hope that this recent tragedy makes them realize that this does happen and we did have a reason to be concerned! I am so thankful that when time after time there were, what seemed to be brick walls in the way, there were those that were relentless in their quest to return the neighborhood to a safe haven for our children. While some of us might have been tempted to sigh and give up on what seemed to be a never ending battle, there were those who never did!!! I thank you for that--you know who you are....I would also like to thank Sen. Scott Brown and his staff for answering questions and staying on board with this issue and making it an important one. We all would have been devastated beyond belief if one of these horrible crimes had happened to one of our own in this neighborhood and if it had been one of ourchildren on the news and front pages of the paper but we know that it breaks our hearts no matter where this happens, even if it's thousands of miles away. This is a problem that needs attention across the country. I hope the agencies working with these sex offenders will do extensive research before placing them in neighborhoods to "reintroduce" them to society. I wish these men a quiet and crime free life in their new area but our children's safety is and should always be the top priority. Thank you to all who kept pursuing the goal and good luck to other neighborhoods across the country who are trying to prevent these horrible atrocities from happening. - LB
3/17 1:02am Thanks JO for the information and keeping up with it. This certainly does answer a lot of questions as to what happened to the bill. - SD
3/16 8:29am Tracking Bills - Met with Erika a week ago at the Senior Center where Sen. Brown advertised that he was holding a session for anyone who wanted to meet. Erika is his aide, and I am much pleased with the rapidity of her taking ownership of making the access to bills user-friendly.
I would appreciate it if those concerned with the Delta issue would proofread her reply [here] and see if it is indeed a step in the right direction. Erika has both a phone num and e-mail address if you prefer to call her direct. Anyway, thanks Erika, keep the info coming and I hope to see you at the Senior Center on your next visit.- JO
3/7 2:27pm We have the official word that the level two sex offenders have moved out of Cleveland Street. I want to thank everybody who made this possible. - SD
3/4 8:32am I plan to meet with Sen Scott Brown Tuesday in Millis to follow through on the suggestion that the procedure follow-thrugh on any bill be clarified. I spoke with him a month ago and gave him the entire Delta file as shown on Norfolknet.com. To date I have not had a reply.
Rep Ross's aide called and downloaded same, and we have a committment by her to pursue the same task.- JO
2/25 12:09pm I have been informed by State Senator Scott Brown that the residents are scheduled to move out of Cleveland Street on March 1, 2005. As soon as it is official, I will post it again. Thank you. - SD
1/24 10:24pm Sen. Scott Brown stopped by the Town Hall Info Desk to say hello as he was heading for a Public Safety Meeting.
I took the opportunity to hand him the "Delta File" from Norfolknet.com in its entirety relating to all of the input received by the Net since it was separated by the Wm.
He was made aware of the need for feedback on the progress of bills. I related to him that I would like to give him an opportunity to read the input.
I mentioned that I would like to notify Sec of State Galvin three weeks hence if it is not in his ballpark to establish a cogent feedback system.
So around Feb 30th I intend to send a formal letter to the Mass. Sec. of State if there is little interest. Any other suggestions ?
What do you inputters think of this approach? Perhaps the situation has changed and information is on hand with scheduled changes taking place??- JO
1/10 2:54pm To: JO - I'm sorry for the misunderstanding. The renovations are not being done to 59 Cleveland Street. They are being done to the new facility that the residents of 59 Cleveland Street are moving into. - SD
1/9 10:05pm To SD. Can one assume the renovations at Cleveland St. are approved and recorded by the Building Dept. / Board of Health, etc. and on recordt? - JO
1/7 2:52pm To those of you who are wondering what is going on with the residents at 59 Cleveland Street, please be advised that they are renovating a home for them. As soon as the home is finished, they will be moving. I will keep you posted on any new developments. - SD
12/9 12:31am Thanks SD. Hope the opinions help. Read with interest your recruiting. Personally I think that contacting Sec of State Galvin with the problem of tracking would put his finite talents to work THEN one can recruit. Its my opinion and I'm not infallible!!! But the system needs attention. - JO
12/5 2:14pm TO JO: I absolutely agree with you that the average person does not know understand the confusion that goes along with getting a bill passed, myself included. I am forming a group with two women, one in Chelmsford and one in North Andover. The purpose of this group is to inform communities of what to do if a situation such as existed on Cleveland Street comes up, keeping people up dated on the legislation and laws that are being passed, etc. We are planning on going to TPA's, Day Care Centers, etc. As soon as we have more information on exactly when we will begin, I will post it on the Norfolk Net. Thank you for all your suggestions. I am sure that this will help a lot of citizens in Massachusetts. - SD
12/5 9:17pm To SD: Thanks for inquiry as to my opinion. It is along the following lines with some suggestions:
My opinion is that both Rep. Ross and Sen do not have the time to birddog the bill that has been put in and of course it was not put in jointly. It was SUBMITTED by Sen Scott. Have you seen anything like the following ?
e.g.
Date Submitted - Copy of the Bill. {Date}
- Location {Date} - Routed to {date}
- Location {7 days later}
- Progress {7 Days later}
- Scheduled Routing {7 days later}
- Monthly report to constituents.
- Estimated progress.
- etc
A side issue -- Does the Cleveland St Committee think the Bill as printed is adequate ? Why not make it avalable to the townspeople either by posting on the Website or in the local papers with requests for opinions ,if needed.
My major suggestion is to have the Cleveland St Committee ask the Secretary of State (Mr. William Galvin) to realize that despite the fine information that exists, that planning and scheduling information does not exist for the layman to access. I am of the opinion that it will take a personage with his proven administrative acumen to ease the information gap.
I know Mr. Galvin can wreak some magic and devise a user-friendly time line and status for a given bill at a given inquiry time. I could submit some more info via the internet (Sec. of State) but believe I am using a significant amount of space (thanks to Wm.) so I dont want to overstay my welcome. What do you think?- JO
12/3 4:26pm JO - If we were to have a meeting with Representative Ross and Senator Brown telling us the chronological order of the bill, then don't you think it would make sense for Scaccia to go to the meeting too, so that he could explain to us how laws are passed, so even simple folk like me could understand? Thank you. - SD
12/2 11:48pm To those interested in the Delta House affair and to answer inquiries from PFD et. al. --
1. It is a tough path to follow. Not only is it difficult to get applicable answers, but to delve thru the maze of aides etc is very confusing.
2. The bill itself has lost its identity, somewhat. I believe it is now a House Bill 2628 somewhere. It is lying dormant AS REPORTED BY BOTH SIDES OF THE PARTIES so it isn't "he is holding it up " or "they are debating it."
3. See Sen. Brown's letter to me dated Nov 24/04 [and pages 2 3 4 5]. While it is true that the legislation is held in the Committee on House this is to be expected under our democratic system. Impact has to be studied, etc.; equal group of the two parties have to be assigned to study the matter/jurisdiction. By no stretch of the imagination can a politician assert that he is putting a bill in to remedy a situation.
4. Voters are being misled if they are making assumptions of a quick fix.
5. Note that Sen. Scott's letter cites that "new legistation" will be "offered " for the next legislative session.
6 Now that we are older and wiser there are a few suggestions for us.
7. Let's ask for a meeting of our representative and senator and ask for a time-line chronology of the bill that was filed and the path it followed and where it sits now with what validity. 8. Indeed, despite the fact that the inhabitants of the Delta-run houses will be leaving (report), what change in the law will it bring? I submit: zero, for original Bill is still being assigned an mulled over by both proponents and opponents. Have we been told precisely where and when events occured? It seems to reinforce the picture that the law really hasn't changed. If so, where is the law?? I rest the case.
We need a clear cut picture of how we can identify and follow a piece of legislation no matter how controversial it is.
9. Suggest a Committee really show our legislators that far from stifling the system, interested voters deserve to understand an monitor the process for maximum effect.
10. As it stands now, some understanding of the process has to take place and feedback that is relevant.
11. It would also be useful to talk to other members of the House and Ways Committee. I did and came away with the complexity involved in even a simple matter. However, it should spark a renewed interest in us to assure that we are getting the proper and timely feed back needed.
Ah - Democracy - Thy speed is not like the wind. Regards,- JO
11/30 5:18pm JO, any response to my questions on 11/17? Thank you. - PFD
11/17 10:49pm TO PFD: Thank you for your questions to JO about Scaccia. Since July of this year, I personally called Scaccia's office eight times, e-mailed him four times and even stopped by his office and left a lengthy message with his reception, who called me to tell me that he would be calling me. That visit was over one month ago, and I still have not heard from him. So, phone calls have been made to him, and he HAS NOT returned any of them. - SD
11/17 9:19pm To JO, thank you for the information on how a bill is enacted and put into law. I am interested in what Mr. Sciasca said to you to give you the opinion he is not holding up the bill? I am not saying he is or is not, I am trying to understand what part of that long process is making this bill sit there with no action. If he is not impeding the process why will he not return the phone calls regarding the subject (if that is in fact true as well)? Thanks for your response. - PFD
11/16 11:32pm State Senator Scott Brown will be on Fox 25 10:00 p.m. News on Wednesday, November 17, 2004, if anybody has any questions about the sex offender legislation that he is trying to pass. This might answer some of those questions for you. Thank you for your concern. - SD
11/15 11:10pm Much has been written about the "holdup" of House bill 2626 (placement of predators) in Norfolk.
People have accused the Chairman of the Ways and Means, Angelo Sciasca, of being the impediment to movement of this bill, as does the filer, Sen. Scott Brown.
Knowing Mr. Sciasca socially, I had the occasion to ask him if indeed he was the delay. For balance, I also asked Sen. Brown the same question.
I then asked the Sec. of State Galvin for an informational packet on the procedure.
Viewers can log in on the following : www.sec.state.ma.us/trs/trs/lawidx.htm This excellent guideline should dispel any erroneous information as to who is holding up what!!
The next time either proponents or opponents cite undue delay on a bill, ask them to realize the path that has to be followed per the law. (If one doesn't like the law, then work to change it.) Better still, ask them to explain the holdup per the procedures and time line.
Accusations should be supported by reference to the existing laws and procedures.
I thank Sec. Galvin for an excellent treatise on the subject. What do you think?- JO
11/13 7:49am Oh, no, you all say, NOT JC writing twice in one night -- we just can't stand this any more! Well, folks, you are going to hear something here that rarely ever happens publicly, and that is that I apologize -- just a little bit -- for being so one-sided about the group home discussion. I realize now (after sleeping on this, literally, and waking up in the middle of the night with an epiphany) that the neighborhood, especially the people living right next to the group home, will most likely have a harder time selling their homes because of their locating there. No, duh, JC! That's what we've all been shouting at you! So some people (the immediate neighborhood) are disproportionally paying for society's push that marginalized people be re-entered into society. A true problem, yes.
But, really, this whole bruhaha was fueled by the sex offender registry law, which was initiated by well-meaning people to notify people of potential dangers in their community. So what was the result of that law? It in effect blacklisted neighborhoods where sex offenders lived. Hmmmmm, was that the effect we really wanted? Is it better to label the devil in your neighborhood, at the expense of branding your neighborhood? Or would it have been better for society if we continued to do what we always have done -- watch our neighbors and our children carefully at all times, don't let our kids alone.
Of, course (yes, I already hear you all screaming at your computers again!), we could have a third choice: make sure that convicted sex offenders who are put back into society are truly safe to be there before they are let out of the legal system. So let's work at changing the criminal code for sex offenders, so the public is assured that these people are not going to do this again. The problem that I have with the bill that Scott Brown is trying to push through the legislature is that it does not address the root of the problem -- that a percentage of sex offenders are likely to re-commit their crimes -- but just geographically limits them (a NIMBY issue); of course, there is nothing to say, in this highly mobile society, that a convicted sex offender who is banished to live in the boonies can't simply drive into a more populated area!
And, as for the potential economic stigma that a group home of mentally disabled adults would bring to a neighborhood, I suspect that this would dissipate over time. When special needs children were first included in regular education classrooms, many parents (and teachers) were concerned that the entire class would suffer as a result. After many years, though, I believe most people feel that the change was for the better overall, as all class members (read "neighbors") were enriched by knowing people who were different. How long that will take for neighborhoods to develop that way, who knows. In the meantime, unfortunately, the immediate neighbors will possibly feel an economic repercussion. It's sort of similar to initial racial integration in a neighborhood, where some potential buyers won't even consider moving next to a (fill in the blank) family; I don't think that's generally now an issue in this town, and individuals don't lose economically as a result. Let's hope it becomes a non-issue for the mentally disabled as well.
So, folks, I can't take much more of this thinking about this topic 24/7, and I suspect that you are all burned out as well. I hope that my postings have in some way furthered some careful thought in at least some of you, and maybe some positive action as well to address the real problems our society faces. I wish you all well.- JC
11/13 7:48am JC - I think once again you are conveniently missing some valid points here and I think SD is totally correct in giving up on talking reasonably to you, since it seems to fuel some sort of fire within you. I will state for myself and I think it's safe to say that I could speak for several, if not all the people in this neighborhood, that we have never had a problem with mentally challenged people living in this home. WE have a problem with sex offenders living in our midst, period. I personally have a problem with people that want to justify their actions and smooth everything over, when all you have to do is pick up a paper on any given day and read about level two sex offenders re-offending and usually the second time around is more gruesome than the first. The issue here is #1 the sex offenders living in close proximity to our children and #2 the way the agency has gone about business in an underhanded and sneaky manner, leaving us feeling unsettled and vulnerable. I am too tired talking to you about this quite frankly JC and I think that people like you are really being as closed-minded as you are trying to make US out to be!!!! We know where we stand and what our viewpoints are and what our convictions are and what we feel our rights and the rights of our children are. If you want to continue your little rant about defending these poor, innocent sex offenders, than you will have to find someone else to bicker with because I don't have time to discuss this with you any longer. It is like beating a dead horse. It seems that because you no longer have any points to argue, that you are taking the low road and trying to make this about mentally challenged people and it absolutely is not and I'm quite sure you know that. It is about sex offenders...... S-E-X O-F-F-E-N-D-E-R-S.... or in other words, people who offend, sexually. It doesn't matter if their IQ is 65 or 265--the fact that they are sex offenders is the issue, period!! The minute you start putting words into my mouth I am all done talking to you. One thing is clear--either you just like to argue or perhaps it is that you are as passionate about the rights of sex offenders, as we are about our rights and the rights of innocent children. You have a right to your opinion, as do we...I do find it interesting that you never seemed to be at any of the public discussions regarding this home--why weren't you there defending these men before your fellow townspeople?? Perhaps you were but you didn't speak up since it's obviously a very hot topic and you wouldn't be very popular.... It's easy to hide behind a posting on a web page but is it productive?? - LB
11/12 8:48pm After all of this discussion in the last few days, I have to admit that I am somewhat baffled. (Let's see if someone is willing to stoop low enough to make a comment on that!) The house on Cleveland Street was bought with state money to provide housing for people with mental retardation; do people have a problem with providing such housing to these folks? The state does not, as far as I know, provide housing specifically for sex offenders; in this case, the state has provided housing because these individuals in question are mentally retarded and cannot live on their own.
The reason I ask if people have a problem with this is because, while much of the initial neighborhood outcry was ostensibly to protect the neighborhood children from the sex offenders, now it seems that people are questioning why that particular house was purchased for a group home at all, as seen by LB's comments: If you look at the house that this agency chose--I mean really look at it--how much they paid, the fact that it only has three bedrooms for 4 adult men, it didn't have an adequate septic system, surrounded by woods, it has a pool, which to me could put these men at risk, unless they all know how to swim...the list goes on and on... Clearly, when taking these things into consideration, this house was a very poor choice[.] Why can't two men share one bedroom? I suspect that the same people who question that the number of bedrooms was too few for four men would turn around and complain that the state was pampering these people with our taxpayer money if the rule was that only one person could be in a bedroom. (Nobody questions that private universities soak parents many thousands of dollars a year to put their young adult son or daughter in a teeny little room with two or three other roommates!) The septic system replacement is a non-issue, as it is fairly safe to say that any house over 30 years old will need to have a system replacement. And the pool and the woods... are they any more unsafe for a family with little children? As for the purchase price, the state buys houses throughout the commonwealth, I would imagine, so that those mentally disabled clients could live and work near where they grew up and where their extended families are; should we expect that the state would insist that all group homes for the mentally disabled be only in poor economic areas where housing stock is cheap?
Eventually people were even questioning why the money was allotted for housing at all. For example, MR writes, "How many teachers, police officers, or firefighters could we hire for the $430k the taxpayers spent on that house??? Never mind the cost of 24 hour supervision. That money comes out of OUR pockets." The money is for people with mental retardation. Do we have a problem with that? We seem to readily spend money on special education for these people when they are younger, even if they have criminal convictions as teenagers (and there are many of them in that category). So now we all of a sudden want to get tough with them when they are a little older?
Or is it, as I suspect, all of a sudden a problem because this group home happens to be in the same neighborhood as some of us, and we don't want it there? It wasn't enough that the sex offenders were moved away, now we question that it really isn't an appropriate house for a group home anyway for all sorts of reasons. Based on the dearth of reasonable responses to my previous postings' questions about what to do with these people, I don't know that too many of you are working on real solutions to this problem of other than making sure that you personally never have to brush up against it.- JC
11/12 6:14pm Where did all the people (patients) go to that were housed in Medfield State Hospital, Wrentham State Hospital, and Foxboro State Hospital? Wrentham is still open but at about 2% of what it once was. Prison? Group homes? under a bridge in Cambridge/ (homeless)?. - LS
11/12 10:02am Regarding the sex offenders. It is a shame that there is no way these criminals could have prevented being the subject of such negative attitudes... WAIT !! There was an option for them! They could have not committed the crimes! I don't care if they have trouble fitting into society... It is like the article in last Sunday's Globe about mothers in prison that want more time with their children.... maybe these criminals should have considered the ramifications before making the mistake. How many teachers, police officers, or firefighters could we hire for the $430k the taxpayers spent on that house??? Never mind the cost of 24 hour supervision. That money comes out of OUR pockets. Isn't it strange that if I choose not to pay my taxes to fund this, I go to jail, these people get a house that is above the median home value in the town. - MR
11/12 6:14pm Where did all the people (patients) go to that were housed in Medfield State Hospital, Wrentham State Hospital, and Foxboro State Hospital? Wrentham is still open but at about 2% of what it once was. Prison? Group homes? under a bridge in Cambridge/ (homeless)?. - LS
11/12 10:02am Regarding the sex offenders. It is a shame that there is no way these criminals could have prevented being the subject of such negative attitudes... WAIT !! There was an option for them! They could have not committed the crimes! I don't care if they have trouble fitting into society... It is like the article in last Sunday's Globe about mothers in prison that want more time with their children.... maybe these criminals should have considered the ramifications before making the mistake. How many teachers, police officers, or firefighters could we hire for the $430k the taxpayers spent on that house??? Never mind the cost of 24 hour supervision. That money comes out of OUR pockets. Isn't it strange that if I choose not to pay my taxes to fund this, I go to jail, these people get a house that is above the median home value in the town. - MR
11/12 9:57am JC - It was not my intent to get into a full fledged discussion with you on this subject but I guess I would like to respond to your post... First of all, let's remember who the victims are in this situation. It is not the person who was intending to rape and got caught and it is not the person who molested a child and got caught. they are not the victims. If they are having problems finding open arms to welcome them into a community, then they should have thought about that before they committed their crimes and if they were not capable of thinking it thru then, then what is to prevent them from thinking it thru now?? The victims in this stituation and other situations is the person that was almost raped and the child that was molested first and foremost, BUT also the victims in this situation are the parents and the children living in these neighborhoods that have literally had their lives changed and their way of doing things changed because the state came along and said, we're going to plop these people down here and we don't care what the zoning laws are for the town and we don't care what sort of discomfort this causes the neighbors, this is where they're going. If you look at the house that this agency chose--I mean really look at it--how much they paid, the fact that it only has three bedrooms for 4 adult men, it didn't have an adequate septic system, surrounded by woods, it has a pool, which to me could put these men at risk, unless they all know how to swim...the list goes on and on... Clearly, when taking these things into consideration, this house was a very poor choice even if you don't add in the population of children and the fact that it is set back into the woods and not easily monitored by the police. Of course the list of victims in the situation goes on and on also--how about the incident where one of these men was looking at the child across the street, not once but TWICE with binoculars??!! Is that child and the play date she had over, victims?? Of course they are--it was very upsetting to them, BUT guess what??!! They have as much as been told that they were lying about the incident by the people running the home, even though the psychologist for these men came over and removed the binoculars....So, then that bring us back into the dark ages when victims kept their mouths shut about being abused or uncomfortable because they felt nobody would believe them anyway....These little children know what they saw and yet now they are being told they made it up.....yet again not protecting the innocent but protecting the the person that caused the problem in the first place!!!! Lastly, I would like to say that anyone in this neighborhood that owns a home is a victim. The older couple I spoke about in my last post, that lives next door to this house, happens to be my parents. Never mind that my family lives two doors down from the house, it burns me up inside because I know my parents worked hard their whole lives to settle down into this new house that they built 4 years ago. They have lived in this town for almost 40 years, been law abiding citizens, paid their taxes, attended town meetings, sent 3 of us thru the school system and after retiring a few years ago, built their beautiful home--so now what....what if they want to sell their home a few years down the road, or what if they don't want to but they have to sell??? Who would want to buy a home next to a sex offender house, no matter how beautiful it is??? The point is that all of us are trapped now and probably couldn't sell our homes even if we wanted to, or if we did sell, we would have to take a huge loss. So, there you have it, we the home owners are victims of these people's crimes as well. I don't feel sorry for them, I feel sorry for the victims and maybe this is why you are finding more than just a few of us that don't agree with your overly compassionate viewpoint. Oh and incidentally, I think it's ironic that in a town like Norfolk, where housing prices are so high, that the state would pay a ridiculous amount of money for a house like the one they are living in....Norfolk is one of the towns that is untouchable by most people who are law abiding citizens just starting out, like newly weds.....and yet if you commit a sex crime, you might beable to move here....this does not make any sense!! Is this how you want your tax dollars spent??? - LB
11/11 8:21pm LB: Thank you for your calm, organized manner in explaining some of the issues dealing with the Cleveland Street group home. Their apparent behavior (I say that only because I did not experience it firsthand) certainly makes a difficult situation a little more complicated, as we are really talking about two issues rolled into one: first, the way in which THIS group home came into the community, and second, how we as a society deal with people who might be a danger to the rest of us. As I have had no firsthand interaction with the group home personnel, I cannot comment on how it was handled, although it certainly appears to have been less than productive for both sides.
The second issue, which is what I am really trying to discuss, is how we as a Massachusetts citizenry handle these level 2 and 3 sex offenders. I truly can appreciate that people are nervous about them in their midst, and that my tolerance is obviously higher than some others', but to make the sweeping proposal that no one convicted of a sex offense be allowed to live within a mile and a half of a school, playground, or day care setting is simply unworkable. LB, you stated that one of the problems of the Cleveland Street setting is that it is wooded and near children. Can you tell me any place in Massachusetts that is outside of the 1.5 mile radius of school, playground, and daycare that is NOT wooded or near children? The proposed law conveniently excludes ALL of Norfolk (I am presuming that there is at least one licensed day care setting in Lafayette Estates), and I would guarantee that virtually every town in Eastern Massachusetts would have the same limitations. So do we send all of these sex offenders to Western Massachusetts?
Some other questions come to mind: If a person is already living in a house near a school and is subsequently convicted of a sex offense, does he have to move away? Does his family have to move? What if he can't sell his house? As he is trying to get back into a more appropriate life, will he have to quit his job because he is forced to live too far away from his job? And what if he lives outside the 1.5 mile radius, but then a day care center is opened close by -- does he have to move away then? I am sure by now that some of you are screaming at the computer while reading my questions, thinking that I just don't get it -- these people DESERVE every problem that they get. But actually, I "get it" quite well and realize that we can't just make these sweeping proposals to get people away from us without thinking them through to see if they will work. It is OUR problem as a society, and to refuse to think of the ramifications of our actions as though we were all little children who could just "wish" the problem away with unworkable legislation is not acceptable. Currently there are approximately 18,000 convicted sex offenders in Massachusetts. If we "just send them away, far away from anywhere there are children," where do they go? "I don't care," is not an acceptable answer -- it's like demanding an expensive vacation (or whatever) without knowing how you are going to pay for it.
If we as a society think that ANYone convicted as a sex offender is too dangerous to live amongst us (even with the "Scarlet Letter" designation of the sex offender registration law - my apologies to Hawthorne), then they all should be incarcerated for life. But our criminal laws currently say that many of them are deemed safe enough to live in general society, and that all who are released from incarceration have paid their debt to society. So what this means is that maybe we should be fighting to change the criminal code for sex offenders, not supporting what is in effect an unworkable proposal.
A couple of people have brought up the comment that these people don't deserve living in a house with a swimming pool, all bought with our tax dollars. For better or worse, our commonwealth decided approximately 25 years ago that warehousing the marginalized people in our society in places like Wrentham, Medfield, and Foxboro State Hospitals was cruel and counter-productive, as these people would become more productive members of society if they were out in the community in group homes. Having worked in places like Wrentham State Hospital, I have to agree with the decision to move them into the community. So we are going to complain because these folks have a swimming pool? Or is it just that the sex offenders in the group home have a swimming pool? It all goes back to whether we are trying to punish the sex offenders (who have paid their debt according to the current criminal code) or to help them to take their place in society.
I fully recognize that there are some (many!) of you who disagree with me. Please understand that I am not trying to get you more upset about a volatile situation, I am just trying to make sure that we have a full discussion of what the issues really are. If I have offended some of you in the process, that wasn't my intention. I respect that you have strong opinions, and I only hope that you can acknowledge mine as well.- JC
11/11 1:20pm TO JC: This is my final comment to you. Do not put words in my mouth. I have a problem with sex offenders. All those other undesirables [...] were words you put in my mouth. And let me remind you that WE bought that house for them. They didn't purchase it with their own money. Did we also buy their victims houses, or do we leave them to fend for themselves and get their own mental care treatment that they need for the rest of their lives after being raped??? No, we take care of the criminals but not the victims. You will never see my side of the story. I will never see yours. So let's just end this now. - SD
11/11 11:31am To JC--Just a comment regarding the idea of bringing a cake over to the group home.....I happen to know that the older couple living right next door to the home already tried to bring them some homemade bread as a good will gesture, and to introduce themselves as their neighbors. Several months ago, we had been encouraged to meet these men and told that if we just met them, that we would like them. So, after baking bread and trying to take it to them to be neighborly, this older couple was told to leave the property and they were spoken to very rudely by the person in charge. Even after calling the woman who had encouraged them to meet them in the first place, and explaining to her what had happened when they tried to meet them, there wasn't even an apology for how they had been treated.
I really think that if the agency that runs this home had worked with the neighborhood to calm our fears from the very beginning and honestly answer our questions, it would have been very helpful. However they have done virtually nothing to work with us and in fact on numerous occasions, outright lied to us and town officials--some of which is on videotape. They have been very sneaky from the very beginning and this brings about a trust issue with those of us that are close by. If you are repeatedly lied to about various things, like how many bedrooms are in the house and not allowing town officials into the house to check because obviously they had something to hide, then why should we believe that these men are indeed being watched 24 hours a day?? If they are being watched, who's watching them and what are their qualifications?? None of these questions have been answered. I think it might be easy for some to sit in judgment of this situation and how it's been handled but I feel certain that if these people knew the whole picture regarding the handling of this situation by those in charge of this home, and how the agency has handled not only the neighbors but even the town itself, their vision might be cleared.
SD--from the very beginning you have been working closely on this and I know you speak the truth and from your heart....there are so many in this neighborhood that thank you for that. No one is saying these men don't have a right to live in society but why put them in a situation where they are setting them up for failure by putting them in an area surrounded by woods and surrounded by children??!! If people care so much about these men, wouldn't it be the right thing to do to remove them as much as possible from temptation, so they don't reoffend and end up in a much, much less desirable place then a $430,000.00 house with a pool, on Cleveland St and with far fewer rights??!!- LB
11/11 8:49am JC - Are you serious or are you trying to be ironic? Are you really claiming that folks who question the safety of having sex offenders in their neighborhoods are engaging in witch hunts? Are you really all that concerned about infringing upon the rights of sex offenders? Because I'll tell you, no one else is.
Usually I am angered by the NIMBY mentality, but in this case I have to say there's no way I'd want sex offenders living in my neighborhood. With so much open space in this country, it shouldn't be too difficult to find a median strip or sand pit somewhere to build a home for wayward molesters. There's just no justification for a halfway house for sex offenders to exist in any populated area where civilized people and their children live. None.
When you commit a sex crime, and especially against a child, you give up your stake in the 'foundation of liberty that we all so cherish.'- DF
11/10 10:59pm To SD: I don't want sex offenders in my neighborhood, I don't want drug addicts in my neighborhood, I don't want convicts in my neighborhood. In fact, I don't want lots of different types of unsavory people in my neighborhood. And some people probably don't want ME in their neighborhood, because I think differently than they do. But guess what? We all have the right to live wherever we want, because this is America. Even if our thoughts and actions are unpopular. So let's stop the witch hunt mentality and realize that when we are hell-bent on limiting other people's rights, we are chipping away at the foundation of liberty that we all so cherish. - JC
11/10 10:31pm TO JC: Let me remind you and everybody else who has a question about this group home situation: Do you know whether or not these men committed their crimes while they were being supervised twenty-four hours a day? Because when we met with a representative from the Department of Mental Retardation we asked that question to him, and he refused to answer it, which led us all to believe that the crimes could have been committed while they were being "supervised." So, unless you know otherwise, it is safe to assume that they committed their crimes while they were being supervised. End of story.
As far as the ``not in my neighborhood'' attitude. Let me tell you this: I don't want it in anybody's neighborhood, not just mine. And I said that from the very beginning of all this. If you are comfortable with sex offenders, that is your problem. Stop thinking you can tell me how I am supposed to feel about them. I am not a fool. I know there are people to avoid and my children know it as well. That's the world we live in. And you can go up on your high horse if you want, but saying "I should have" and actually doing it are two different things. We had meetings with the Town Officials about this, were you there defending these men asking us to give them a chance?- SD
11/10 3:57pm To Name Withheld by Request: Yes, it was a tragedy that you were raped by a stranger -- I certainly don't deny you that, and I hope that you are somehow able to put one foot in front of the other every day to continue on with your life. My heart goes out to you for your struggle.
But I have to ask a few questions (which I certainly understand that you won't answer, but they are posed for the discussion at hand) -- was the stranger who raped you a mentally retarded individual who was living in a 24-hour supervised setting near you? Or was it a more random attack by someone who wouldn't be so easily categorized? I suspect that the rapist was not a group home member.
As for my reference to other crimes (illegal drinking, DWI, stealing, etc.), my point was that we don't generally know if our neighbors and their visitors have any "hidden pasts," so we all learn to protect ourselves and our children from people in general. Just because an individual is not labelled "dangerous" by the state does not mean that he or she is not a threat to us and our children. The sex offender registry deals only with people convicted after August 1, 1981; that means that there could be older convicted offenders living right in our midst whom we don't know about! [mass.gov ref]
To SD: The use of the word "rumors" rather than "convicted" was because this neighborhood situation happened in the 1960's -- there would be no way of knowing if these neighbors were actually sex offenders. The point was that they were identified (rightly or wrongly), and we all knew that there were some "people in the neighborhood to stay away from." So we did. End of story.
Somehow this whole group home uproar smacks of NIMBY. And, for the record, I and my children live less than a mile from the group home myself, so maybe I should have taken a walk over with my welcoming cake to greet the new neighbors.- JC
11/10 3:06pm TO JC: There is a difference in my opinion from "rumors flying around" and actual facts. The two men on Cleveland Street are "convicted" sex offenders. There is a difference between a "rumor" and a "conviction." I know about supervising my children. I have always supervised my children, but I do have a problem with the state putting sex offenders so close to my children. There is no safe place to live in this world, and I know it. But moving convicted sex offenders away from a neighborhood with 25 children is a good start. You can also stop with your statistics. I am not interested in my children become one of the statistics of children who get raped by neighbors rather than relatives or "Friendly Uncle Frank." - SD
11/10 11:21am To JC and DN, As a victim of rape, by a stranger, I am appalled at your comments. How can you compare smoking cigarettes, stealing and drinking to rape? I live with this everyday of my life and will never feel safe again. I now have young children and live down the street from these offenders. Why should their rights be put above my children's rights? I would do anything to protect them from these people. As far as I am concerned they got off easy - nice house on Cleveland Street with a pool. What's next? A membership at the club? They do not deserve rights like us. We are decent citizens who obey the law. They are criminals who hurt children. - [Initials withheld - Wm.]
11/10 11:11am I guess I didn't get my point across very well. Of course I don't think that stealing from a mailbox is on the same level as sexual molestation. A bad example. But maybe being hit by a drunk driver does just as much permanent damage as being molested, yet we don't have a huge outcry when someone who has one or more DWI's lives in the neighborhood, even though there are statistics to show that repeat offenders are more likely to be involved in a fatal crash [MADD statistics page] ; that fatal crash might involve your innocent family member or mine coming home from a late meeting or whatever.
The point I'm trying to make is that we should all be aware of the real risks involved, not just reacting from our guts. Someone (I don't have the norfolknet posting in front of me) [11/9 8:51pm] brought up the priest molestation scandal as testimony to the damage done by sexual molestation. Does that mean that all priests are perverts? Of course not! What it means is that we as parents should never assume that a friendly priest (or neighbor or relative) is appropriate for our child to be alone with. There are always "bad" people around in our environment, always have been, and always will be. Our job as parents (yes, I have children who have grown up in Norfolk) is to teach our kids how to maneuver themselves safely in the world. As DN and I both stated, the overwhelming majority of victims of sex crimes know their perpetrators [US DOJ ref]. It is highly unlikely that a mentally challenged individual under 24 hour supervision would nab a little child playing out in the yard to molest him or her; it's statistically much more likely that that same child would be raped by a "doting" grandfather, uncle, or cousin.
As for the upcoming Senate bill backed by Scott Brown, I feel that people are reacting to the gut feeling of fear rather than really analyzing the actual risks. A licensed child care home or center has a responsible adult watching all of those children every minute they are there -- not much opportunity for a lurking child molester to snatch a victim, at least not in the day care settings my children attended when they were younger. Likewise, a school has plenty of supervision for their charges, again, giving virtually no opportunity for someone to lure a child away. Yes, playgrounds are the least "secure" settings for our children if there is not supervisory adult presence there; so maybe we could fine-tune such a bill to limit access to playground environs by convicted sex criminals. But understand that other convicted (and potential!) sex offenders who don't live in that area could still just as easily hang around our Norfolk playgrounds after school, even if they live in another town, so this proposed bill does not really solve anything!!! All it does is give some of us the false sense of security that we are protecting our children by creating a wall around us.
May I suggest that instead we all do the following: make sure we provide adult supervision for our grade-school children at all times, and teach them how to identify dangers and respond to them appropriately as they get older. If that means that a group of parents take turns supervising the playground after school, so be it. But please, oh please, don't miss the statistically documented threat of sexual abuse by relatives and friends of the family!!!
SD -- Your response brought back a memory for me. I grew up in a neighborhood of closely situated houses where two middle-aged mentally challenged men lived with their parents. There were lots of rumors flying around in the neighborhood about how these brothers had a history of making sexual advances towards people; we all handled it by knowing to stay away from their house and keeping a healthy distance from either of the men as they walked to and from the end of the street to catch the bus to their jobs. We never felt that they were going to snatch us from our yards, and we certainly didn't feel that it was our responsibility to run them out of town. And to think -- those were the days when we all left our doors unlocked and we kids would say goodbye to Mom in the morning for a day of unsupervised play around the neighborhood, returning only for meals!- JC
11/9 8:55pm TO JC & DN: If you want to compare somebody who steals something from my mailbox with a sex offender, who molested a child under the age of fourteen, you go right ahead, but for every one of you who thinks that these men have rights to live in neighborhoods with twenty-five children at their disposal, there are 100 of me who think you are absolutely mistaken. You do not know the circumstances of these individuals, and I am sure that if you did you would still try to defend their actions. I have been working on this issue since March, and I believe I know more about these people and the people who "supervise" them than you do, so until you do your homework, you should keep your opinions to yourself. Victims are not always people in the family, and if there isn't any family available, who do you think these sex offenders turn to next? I'm not apologizing for wanting these men away from my children and my neighbor's children. If you think they are so special, did you go over to their house with a cake and welcome them to Norfolk? Or are you just sitting home criticizing people who want their children protected from rapist and child molesters? As a a parent I have a right to defend my children BEFORE something happens to them. And if that is not how you go about your life that is your business.I still don't feel you have the right to paint me or anybody like me as an uncaring or over-reacting individual. Also, let me ask you this. Would you buy a house next to two level two sex offenders? Because most people would not, therefore, people in this neighborhood couldn't sell their houses. Why should we have to be prisoners in our own homes for crimes other people committed? - SD